02-09-2016 01:44 PM
02-09-2016 01:44 PM
Hi hun...
I know it is the most awful feeling being alone.. If someone could just knock on our door and say 'I am here, lets have a coffee (tea in my case') and talk', it would be so lovely.... does your husband support you..
Luv - Inga
02-09-2016 02:35 PM
02-09-2016 02:35 PM
He does and he doesn't. I know he loves me and he cares for me but he doesn't understand what it is like. He will not read any literature on my illness and when I have an episode he tends to just let me get on with it. He can't deal with my extreme and confusing emotions. Mind you neither can I, they frighten me.
02-09-2016 02:54 PM
02-09-2016 02:54 PM
Hey Hun...
May I ask how old you are.. I have a reason for this..
I do not want to scare you-but : My husband, abusive in a certain way ( who left much to be desiresd ) left due to my illness.. when I was feeling bad he too totally ignored me...
My second husband abused me ... I left him..
Did you move from overseas???
namaste-Ingrid...
Talk again soon...
02-09-2016 03:05 PM
02-09-2016 03:05 PM
I'm 50 next week. We moved from England to New Zealand 15 years ago and we moved here in December.
02-09-2016 03:30 PM
02-09-2016 03:30 PM
02-09-2016 03:51 PM
02-09-2016 03:51 PM
Thank you Pip, that helps. I have not registered with a dr yet, I will do it next week.
02-09-2016 04:13 PM
02-09-2016 04:13 PM
Hey Cat.. Do oyu have cats?? do you have children??
Re: age... I am 63 yrs young....before I get ahead (elaborate ) of myself-are you taking hormones... I meant to ask you in last message...
I do massive research to find help for myself... When did your condition first manifest-need help for..
I personally have not found a group in my area..at the moment I am too ill to look for a group..
namaste-Inga
02-09-2016 05:23 PM
02-09-2016 05:23 PM
Hey Cat....
can you write something like what I have just composed..Talking/telling a person is hard.. handing him a written note and asking please read it, he just may...
It may not help, but at least you tried.. it is so simple he may just get it........
Love - Inga
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Everyone on earth -including you-has a brain containing neurotransmitters which govern our whole body….Some people are born physically handicapped or mentally handicapped, blind, no hearing etc.
Some of us are born with the transmitters not sending the right signals for the brain to function as to what is considered "normal"…Instead of sending the signal to the right place, it sends it no-where.. This disrupts how one feels.. It is bloody awful.. I want to tear my brain out, give it a kick and tell it to send the right signals…
BUT I CANNOT…no more than a handicapped person can tell himself to be 'normal'…
Please just love me.. When I am feeling crappy, please just put your arm around me and tell me you are with me…offer me a cup of tea-just something……
You do not understand-you cannot unless you have experienced it- but a simple gesture stops me feeling so alone and unloved…
Please know I do not do it on purpose..
02-09-2016 10:00 PM
02-09-2016 10:00 PM
Hi Ingall yes I have cats, my cats know when I'm not feeling right and they love me, I mean they push themselves into my space and make me fee
safe, or at least there like I exist.
02-09-2016 10:05 PM
02-09-2016 10:05 PM
Yes Ingall
I know what you mean about tearing my brain out but it doesn't work cos you still exist after
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