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[Dreamy]

@Sunnyside226 haha oh I know that feeling all too well 😂. Especially cos I didn't get up for a pee during the night 😂.

Happy for you to ask me anything 😊

[Sunnyside226]

Also I ain't sharing that stitch couch haha

@Dreamy  it was a self harm question  

maybe I need help with this  I'm panicking   

[Dreamy]

@Sunnyside226 haha oh yes you are, I'll fight you for it 😂😂😂.

As in how to manage urges? I know it's a hard one to talk about. 

[rav3n]

i have an alarm on for 5:30 so let's see how many times i hit snooze 😂 @Sunnyside226 

ohh i thought you were taking a break from forums when you said see ya later, (which is why i said the last part) but glad to see you around still hehe.

i'm having a coffee right now 😋 how about you? omg cheesy jalapeno cheezels sound amazing... but nope i haven't tried them before! have you?

also feel free to ask your question @Sunnyside226 - if there's anything wrong with it, we can always edit and work it out - no stress 😊

[rav3n]

@Sunnyside226 if the question is relating to self harm, you can still chat about it but remember not mention any methods/details around it (here's the Guidelines if you wanna check it out again). you can also add a spoiler tag and mention "TW: self harm" at the top too (or us mods can add it in for you if you'd like).

as @Dreamy said, if its around managing it, we can talk about it for sure! 

[Sunnyside226]

@rav3n hehe I bet you will hit it 5 times 

I'm having coffee too bffs lol jokes 

Cheesy jalapeno cheezels I had them before   it's a little  hot made my eyes water 😂 my nose too 😂😂 

How was your weekend?    

I bet you still won't get up at 530  the alarm will still be going off at 730! Hehe 😂 😂  

@Dreamy  I'll fight you for the couch 😂😂😂 that send me laughing   Ill give you a little stitch couch 😁 😎

I'm sure rav3n can fix this sorry I don't know if it's ok or not 

today I thoughts about ending it and I started having self harm thoughts (I don't get them much)  

I wanted to know if you tried the "ice" or red pen  thingy where you wanted to self harm. I'm trying to make sense 

I was going to ice but didn't as I went for a walk  @Dreamy  I understand if I've upset you with this question  I don't mean to    I already hate myself for asking I'm going to go  I made a mess of things now  

[Sunnyside226]

@rav3n I don't know how to that

I'm really panicking now   delete it sorry I don't know I'm stressing and panicking.  

Sorry I don't know 

[rav3n]

are you talking about using ice and/or drawing using a red pen as an alternative to self-harm? @Sunnyside226 if you are, that's totally okay to chat about! it can be really great learning some new coping and harm-reduction tools 😊

[Dreamy]

@Sunnyside226 i need a coffee but I'm feeling too lazy to make one 😂.

I don't want no little stitch couch, I suggest we get 2 of those big ones 😂.

That question is completely ok to ask. I've tried the ice and the drawing on myself aswell as other strategies. It can very much be trial and error and what works for some may not work for others. You also have to give it a good chance to work so trying for say 10-20 before thinking it's not working. The fact that you went for a walk is amazing and well done for doing that, I'm proud of you. 

As someone that deals with those urges of self harm every day I'm always happy to talk about ways to manage those urges and come up with coping strategies 😊

[Sunnyside226]

I'm having a stress attack 

Anxiety attack 

Panic attack 

I'll go  talk tomorrow   or something 🖤💛