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04-07-2024 09:06 PM
04-07-2024 09:06 PM
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I know you have an early start @Captain24 Capitán, I hope you’re feeling ok?
@ENKELI where are you? Everything okay?
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05-07-2024 10:16 AM
05-07-2024 10:16 AM
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@Glisten hey my friend.
Feeling miserable and unwanted at work.
Will chat more tonight when I get home ♥️💐
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05-07-2024 12:11 PM
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05-07-2024 12:31 PM
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05-07-2024 02:25 PM
05-07-2024 02:25 PM
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@PeppyPatti and @Oaktree thanks for the love.
D, who is the "team leader" and couldn't organise a beer in a brewery. She is very exclusive and has conversations with other team members that exclude me. She speaks to me either in a threatening or condescending manner. I've been to HR several times (she threatened to send me there, knowing full well that behaviour sets off a trauma reaction in me)
I'm afraid to leave as I am behind in bills and don't know how easy it would be to find another job that pays as well and is close to home.
I wake up having to talk myself into getting up to go to work and dread coming in most days.
I have no friends aside from my Sane ones.
I'm safe but feel pretty terrible 😕
Usually I chat with Birdofparadise8 but she's not available at the moment so I'm a little bit lost.
Tried the hotline numbers but they didn't help.
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05-07-2024 02:38 PM
05-07-2024 02:38 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through at work @ENKELI
I've felt a similar dread everyday before work in a previous role and it gets exhausting 😞 The only thing that helped me through it was looking at other job ads, even if I wasn't applying, just looking gave me some sense of agency and helped me feel a bit less trapped in the job... that and taking a lot of sick days
Do you have anything on for the afternoon/evening?
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05-07-2024 03:02 PM
05-07-2024 03:02 PM
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Hey @Glisten. Sorry.. last night was tough and left me feeling out of sorts. Today I’m struggling too. But.. no early start as I’m on 5 days off!!
How are you going?
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05-07-2024 03:07 PM
05-07-2024 03:07 PM
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Sorry you are going through all that @ENKELI.
I had a job that at one certain part in time was very toxic. It had me considering a very final way of dealing with it. But I got through it with strength that I didn’t know I had and then that person was dismissed and all became bearable.
Maybe start looking for a job. At least you are still employed, even though it’s not a healthy environment. You don’t know what is out there and you don’t know what tomorrow will bring.
I know and hear that it’s not easy in the present but I’m sure life just has to get easier.
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05-07-2024 03:10 PM
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Awww @ENKELI , I'm sorry this is still happening. You deserve so much better. Do you think D is aware of her behaviour and how it impacts you?
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05-07-2024 04:01 PM
05-07-2024 04:01 PM
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@Captain24 You never have to apologise to me, my friend. I’m almost impossible to offend.
I just needed to know that you were okay.
After almost a month, 34 document files and several emails to and from my paralegal. My disclosures have been indexed and submitted to the other party’s lawyer.
I am feeling relieved.
How are you going to fill your 5 days?
G